valentine's day.
you know, i hear about it a lot. it's everywhere. people advertising it, girls endlessly talking and gushing- wondering about the 'guy of their dreams' emerging with the obvious flowers and chocolate. and i mean, i get it- we all hope for love, or you know, a happy ending- but seriously- are we just trying to raise the bar so that no one can reach it?
i've been thinking about these things, and you know- i've come to a simple solution.
don't expect anything. that's just easily said than done, right ? but then i wish that i could do it- i see all those pictures of cute couples and i'm like, "damn, i want that." but then again, i'm setting myself up. because what if the perfect guy came along and because of all these expectations i overlook him ?
... but then expecting the 'perfect' guy to come along is just contradicting all this.
so you see my dillema ?